The petitioner must arrange to serve the other party with a summons, petition, and other papers as required by one of the following methods:
(Subd (a) amended effective January 1, 2014.)
A response to a family law petition may be served by the methods described in (a) but may also be served by mail without notice and acknowledgment of receipt.
The court has jurisdiction over the parties and control of all subsequent proceedings from the time of service of the summons and a copy of the petition. A general appearance of the respondent is equivalent to personal service within this state of the summons and a copy of the petition upon him or her.
Cal. R. Ct. 5.68